November 2011
“If you’re gonna have pizza with someone else, what do you have to do? You gotta talk about what you want. Even if you’re going to have the same pizza you always have, you say, ‘We getting the usual?’ Just a check in. And square, round, thick, thin, stuffed crust, pepperoni, stromboli, pineapple — none of those are wrong; variety in the pizza model doesn’t come with judgment. So ideally when the pizza arrives, it smells good, looks good, it’s mouthwatering. Wouldn’t it be great if we had that kind of anticipation before sexual activity, if it stimulated all our senses, not just our genitals but this whole-body experience. And what’s the goal of eating pizza? To be full, to be satisfied. That might be different for different people; it might be different for you on different occasions. Nobody’s like ‘You failed, you didn’t eat the whole pizza.’”
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NY Times: Teaching Good Sex (via ffolkthepainaway)
(via dreadhawkedmuckaround)
(via psychotropicpolitics)
“Since the notion that we should all forsake attachment to race and/or cultural identity and be “just humans” within the framework of white supremacy has usually meant that subordinate groups must surrender their identities, beliefs, values, and assimilate by adopting the values and beliefs of privileged-class whites, rather than promoting racial harmony this thinking has created a fierce cultural protectionism.”
—bell hooks, “Killing Rage” (via bhavitavyata)
officialkylieminoguedragqueen:
honestly im going to say it i dont care what you believe is okay for whatever gender to look like
chances are i am far more beautiful than you can hope to achieve and what i do will be viewed as fantastic and exciting and your closet is filled to the brim with plaid and urban outfitters and
im fucking better than you sorry but i fucking am
